My ex... guys please answer this!?

alright people i want seriouse answers... no b*llsh!t.... alright me n my ex broke up after 4 yrs... he says he dosent feel the same anymore... he care very much for me n loves me but like he used to... but he likes me. he still tries to hug me at night... ( were livin together until our lease is over so we can both find our own place ) he still wants to have with me n tells me hes gonna miss me but then why dosent he want to be with me. he says hes not ready for another relationship... thats hes not over me dat he loves me but caint be with me... wat does this mean?? im goin crazy... n we have a 2 yr old son whos also caught in the middle of this! n he dosent believe in couselin so is their anythin i can do to get him to get bak with me or wat is it that he really wants... me, our family or freedom... im 20 n hes 17 so hes still a young one... no im not a rapist or child molester... we met wen i was 16 n he looks older than me... i didnt know hes real age until i got pregnant...