Christians: Divorce, based on the Bible?

In the present churches we can hear teachings like don't divorce your wives. they never teaches how a wife behave with their husbands in family life. if wife start earning they act as own, not respecting elders, no accountability. Earlier adultery is the only reason for divorce now there are lot of other reasons we can say. Today along with bible teachings we require behavioral teachings also. Now non Christians are leading a happy life when compared to us. Christian women are behaving badly in family's they are the reason for divorces.